| Location | Essex |
| Age | 46 years |
| Date of Birth | 4/1962 |
| Date of Death | 2008 |
| Visitors | 796 since 17/01/2008 |
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Brenda died aged 45 on the 12th January 2008. She was originally from London but moved to essex 13 years ago. She has a little boy, George aged 12. She was suddenly diagnosed with Lung cancer in November and it was too advanced for treatment.
She was like a sister and a friend all rolled into one for me. We were friends for over 20 years. She was the most caring loving person anyone could ever hope to meet. All she ever wanted was to look after others and she was a fantastic mum. We had so many fun nights in and out, dancing and drinking our bacardi and cokes. i love her so much and will miss her always and forever.
She will be sadly missed by all of her family, especially her Mum, her 3 sisters (Jenny, Linda and Carol), and all of her nieces and nephews. Also by her many, many friends.
To all her family & friends any pics you might have please send to me or add them.
Lets all remember and share our memories - cos Bren will always live on in our hearts xxx
Brenda
My darling Bren - its been 4 years already but I still miss you as much now as i did then. Just went crem and cried - you should be here with us all - i just wonder why someone as special and beautiful as you would be taken so soon.
Just want to say how much i love you and you are always in my heart.
There will never be anyone else like you.
RIP sweetheart - till we meet again
Love Lisa Jane xxxxx
Darling Bren - Its been 3 years - long and lonely ones without you. I still cant believe your not here. Time has not healed the pain and hurt we all still feel. You will always be my best friend and in my heart forever......i miss you so much - till we meet again babe - Love you - Lisa Jane xxxxx
I wish you was still here!
Dear Brenda,
I miss you so much especially now, i;'m into my teenage life, an the only person i can think to go to is you!
I miss you loads xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
1 year on
Dearest Brenda,
I can't believe it's been a year already, it seems like only yesterday that we spent our final evening together at the hospice choosing photos for Georges photo album, trying to make a special reminder to George of how much you loved him, little did I know it would be the last time I would see you.
Part of me still can't believe you've gone and the emptiness I still feel knowing your not here is painful.
I laid flowers at your resting place yesterday cos I know how much you loved fresh flowers, always a vase full of them in your home.
I am so grateful to have known you and our friendship was so special, I've never had a friend like you before and I don't think I ever will again, you are one of a kind.
Love you and miss you so much,
Lisa xx
1 year
Bren
I bought you a gift but it hasnt been put on yet - sorry
Love you and miss you every day
There is only 1 Brenda!!
Love you lots babe
Lisa xx
Dearest Brenda, I just wanted to let you know that I will never forget you. You were so kind to me and I only wish I'd had the chance to get to know you better. I think of you so often, but especially this week - I can't believe it's a year now since we lost you, but you will always live on in my heart and the hearts of all of those who knew you, however briefly. You were a wonderful, kind, brave and special person Brenda, and I know you are up there with the rest of the angels. Sweet dreams and God bless. Love you lots, B xx
New Year
Dear Bren
My best friend - cannot believe yr not here with me on New Years Eve.
My life will never be the same - I will never have what I had with you and I dont even want to try.
You are the most special woman I have ever met and I feel privileged to have been a part of your life for so many years.I just wish we had more time - we had so many plans. (As Sheila & Shirl)
You were always there to give me support and the right advise - a beautiful person inside and out.
Till we meet again my beautiful Bren.
God bless you babe
Lisa xx
Missing you hun
Hi Bren, I hope your watching over all of us, still can't believe your gone, miss you so much, no one will ever fill the void you left in mine and so many other peoples lives, miss our chats, miss our shopping trips, miss our nights out, but most of all miss you being there for me when no one else was. Just found out I'm expecting Jason's baby and it's going to be strange going through all this without you helping me along the way, but I know your watching over all of us. Love you so much and miss you terribally. Till we meet again. xx
Bren\'s Birthday
hi babe thinking of you always especially today your birthday - i have the memories of all the ones we spent together - this time last year we were getting ready to go clubbin and boy did we drink and dance - i miss you so much and the pain will never go away - you were my only true friend - i love you always & forever xxxxx
i miss you auntie brenda
brenda do you remember why i have to call you auntie cos if you think about it i should be calling you nanny but horrified of being called that you told me to call you auntie brenda cos you was far to young and beautiful, which you was.
i know when ever i saw you i was shy for the first 2 min then the rest of the time you was making me laugh, cuddling up to me reading me a book and i always cried when you had to leave.
Thank you for my christmas present i know you wasnt able to give it to me in person but i loved it and will cherrish it for ever, i loved getting presents from you they were always the best ones.
i wish there was more times for us to play,but mummy and daddy says your resting now and in no pain and you have become an angle looking after everyone, so you still can watch me grow up and laugh when im being naughty.
i will never forget you, your the best auntie
love you lots and lots kisses and cuddles little Taylor xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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